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A special poem by Nelson Mandela about letting go

5 December - 2018
by Vincent Moleveld
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Nelson Mandela is typically such a man that makes everyone feel good. It doesn't happen to me often that I get hit when someone well known dies. My girlfriend pointed me to a special poem by Nelson Mandela and when I had read the poem, I had to share it with online gallery. The poem is about letting go. Sometimes letting go is the only way to go further and when we are a happy person the most beautiful things come back just by letting go.

Letting go

To let go doesn’t mean to stop caring: it means I can’t do it for someone else.

To let go is not to cut myself off; it is the realization that I can’t control another.

To let go is not to enable, but to allow learning from natural consequences. To let go is to admit powerlessness, which means the outcome is not in my hands.

To let go is not to try to change or blame another;

I can only change myself.

To let go is not to care for, but to care about. To let go is not to fix, but to be supportive.

To let go is not to judge, but to allow another to be a human being.

To let go is not to be in the middle arranging outcomes, but to allow others to effect their own outcomes. To let go is not to be protective; it is to permit another to face reality.

To let go is not to deny, but to accept.

To let go is not to nag, scold, or argue, but to search out my own shortcomings and to correct them

To let go is not to adjust everything to my desires, but to take each day as it comes and to cherish the moment.

To let go is not to criticize and regulate anyone, but to try to become what I dream I can be. To let go is not to regret the past, but to grow and live for the future.

To let go is to fear less and love more.

Nelson Mandela (18 juli 1918 - 5 december 2013)